What We Learned on the Trail — TMB 2025 Reflections from the Women Who Walked It
- Brooke Barber
- Jul 4
- 3 min read

This year’s women-only Tour du Mont Blanc was packed with challenge, beauty, and growth. Many of our hikers had never done a multi-day trek before, and yet — step by step, valley by valley, col by col — they moved forward with courage, camaraderie, and surprisingly good humor (even when sore feet and blisters came knocking).
At the end of our journey, I asked each guest what they had learned on the trail. Their answers were honest, funny, moving, and a powerful reminder of why we do hard things together. Here’s what they shared:

Samira learned the power of starting the day with intention. A simple morning stretch (topped off with a hug for yourself!) helped her begin each hike with grace and love. It sets your mindset. No matter what comes your way, you’ve already chosen to treat yourself kindly.
Connie only hiked one day with us, but her spirit left an impression. She said, “If you can’t run with the big dogs, stay on the porch. Don’t whine, just play in the yard.” While she didn’t hike the full route, she made memories with her daughter Monique that we hope last a lifetime. We all loved seeing her smile at the end of each day — a reminder that the trail isn’t just about the miles walked, but the moments shared.
Monique discovered that the best trail gifts are often unexpected — especially trail friendships. In a world where connections can feel fleeting or surface-level, the TMB gave her meaningful bonds that formed one step at a time.
Meredith taught all of us what resilience looks like. After falling on Day 1 and dislocating her pinky (yes, she ended up in the ER!), she returned with a splint, one pole, and a positive attitude that never quit. Her lesson? “I learned I’m incredibly calm in emergency situations. And you must STOP to look around and take pictures — there’s no rush.”
Yajaira discovered that the chatter on the trail wasn’t just background noise — it was a lifeline. “If I hike alone too long when it's quiet, my negative self-talk takes over,” she shared. Community helps silence the doubt. Her insight was a beautiful reminder of why we are stronger hiking together, rather than alone.
Nikki kept it real: “Read the warning labels!” Her takeaway? Ask questions, trust your guide and your host, and don’t try to outsmart the mountain. Also: trekking poles are not optional. They are gospel truth.
Kristin reminded us that we can do very hard things with the right guidance, the right people, and the right mindset. Oh, and a little knee support never hurts. (“Sexy knees” became an iconic inside joke of this trip.)
Rachel said it beautifully: “Humility makes fast friends.” Vulnerability — especially in the face of physical challenge — creates bonds that are both deep and fast. Her sentiment echoes: "Don’t be afraid to open up. That’s where the magic happens.”
Cassie offered a wise shift in mindset: “Hold loosely to the definition of ‘complete.’” She reminded us that managing your expectations often leads to a better, fuller experience. Let the trail be what it is, not what you planned. Rejoice in the beauty of your reality.
Stephanie exclaimed: “Don’t skip your rest day!” She learned that resting is not quitting — it’s strategy. It resets your body and mind, and allows you to be present. “Don’t let past trips steal the joy from this one,” she said. “This trip is happening now. Take advantage of the gift of now.”
Fernando, our beloved mountain guide, learned many things — including how to properly say “Murica.” (Bless him.) But more than that, he reflected on how much people can grow in a short time. “You arrived one way,” he said, “and you’re leaving completely different.” He noted that groups don’t always “gel” the way Authentica groups do — and that you can overcome so much more than you think when you’re surrounded by the right people.
Cathy learned that being reserved is not a flaw — it’s just part of who she is. And in the right group, there’s room for every personality type. You don’t have to be the loudest voice to belong.
And me?
I learned that when you choose to spend your time adventuring with good people, those memories start to build a kind of inner strength. Each pass we crossed now has a memory — a laugh, a friendship, a challenge met. And I know that the next time I find myself struggling on a hike, I’ll draw on this group’s energy to carry me forward.
To the 2025 TMB crew — thank you for your strength, your honesty, your laughter, and your heart. You made this trek unforgettable.
Until next time… we’ll see you in the mountains!
💛 Brooke

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